michaels4gardens":1egba02s said:
School was horrible for me, by 2nd grade the teacher had decided I was too retarded to be in public school and wanted me moved to a class for kids who were below the intellectual parameters for public education,, -my mom disagreed with them,- so I was tested, it turns out I was not too stupid, I was too bored to stand it. - the principal told me I would have to start reading and participate in class-- I said it just too stupid, who cares about stupid little stories about Dick and Jane-- the principal told me I would have to learn to read, -- I told her I could read, so she asked me to wait while she got a book so i could show her, -- I said-- whats wrong with the books on your desk, - she told me they were too advanced for my grade, -- I said that grade stuff is all BS,- so she handed me one of her books and I read it to her-- she said-- "now we have more problems then I imagined, what am I going to do with you?"
I couldn't even imagine sending my son to a public school. :shock:
He's...something else. Even I can recognize that. I've never encountered a mind quite like his before. The ex-school teacher who comes to test him tells me the same thing. She claimed that in ten years of teaching kindergarten in a regular public school, she'd never met another student like him.
(The woman actually called him a genius...I'm his mother, and I wouldn't go that far, but I can see where someone who is only accustomed to teaching at public school kindergarten level might be shocked.)
I also seriously doubt that such students didn't exist. :angry: They probably just had never been given freedom to develop and express themselves.
But I also I don't think anyone's ever seen the extent of my son's abilities either. I know I haven't.
He
can test at a very high level (with sufficient motivation), but it's plain to people speaking with him or observing him closely that his ability level is much higher than anything that has ever been asked of him.
He still acts out, like any little boy.
He challenges the rules constantly, unless he understands exactly WHY it's important to follow them. He's viewed as "spoiled" by my extended family, who much prefer children to be quiet and "well behaved" instead of headstrong and questioning.
Still, all it takes is EXPLAINING things to him directly, not just what you want from him, but WHY. If it makes sense, he'll do it (or refrain from it.)
It's just that one
must treat him as person and not as a "child," because his mind is quite obviously equal to an adult's mind in some areas.
He's not at all difficult for me, as he is a good natured person, and has a kind way with the animals. I don't think there is a drop of meanness in him. (Yeah, he's a momma's boy.)
What I'm trying to say, is that he would not thrive in a public school.
As things stand, his teacher has gotten in trouble with the cyber school because she was testing his reading at a 7th grade level instead of a kindergarten level.
(7th grade? Seriously if she wanted to challenge him at all, she'd need to bring 12th grade material. Even then...I'm not sure that would slow him down.)