I love this thread!
Thank you!
We are homeschoolers, too.
Public school destroyed my daughter~ she left in mid Grade one with PTSD.
She is now entering Grade 5 (age wise) and we have never looked back.
She presents strongly with anxiety and OCD with SPD (sensory issues), but also has Tourette's and has been diagnosed (a year ago) with Aspergers (high functioning autism).
Clinically she fits on the autism spectrum, in a very unusual 'pattern' of strengths and weaknesses~ the psychiatrist feels it is a handy label but that the real creature to manage and support is her intelligence, which is testing over 140 and he feels higher than that but inhibited by the severity of her anxiety/ OCD stuff.
His theory is that super smart people are just very different in how they perceive and think and function.
In my daughter's case just functioning can be a huge challenge~ she may be brilliant but has no executive function skills and is often paralyzed by her anxiety.
So there are lots of great things, but lots of challenges, too.
By homeschooling we can meet her where she is at... let her read like an adult and do math at her actual grade level etc. and continue to stretch and teach her around social skills, managing anxiety etc.
It is very intensive and not at all hands off, although that is the goal with time!!
I was labelled gifted as well, but I enjoyed school and was successful socially, although I learned utterly NO work habits and cruised through to a graduate degree without learning much at all :lol: ~ which I really regret now!
I also definitely have learning challenges in math/ working memory and other areas~ so I am re-teaching myself all that I missed while teaching my daughter math! :shock:
My daughter's needs have lead me to quit my 20 year career and stay at home with her~ my husband (definitely Aspergers!) works away as a truck driver long haul.
So our home set up is very tailored to everyone's needs at this time.
(Bunnies are a joint project with my daughter to work on her practical skills and give me something to think about LOL)
She may not remember to brush her teeth but she has a much better grasp on colour genetics than I do and can draw a mean punnet square :lol: