I've been following...and posting...to this thread. I fail to see where anyone has attacked or picked on Sky. Sky made comments to which others, including myself, have responded to in what was intended to be a conversation. I'm sorry if anyone has been offended by this discussion but we are adults (I think) and should be able to handle a friendly discussion of opposing views.
I've been "stuck"...I've been in a position to have to walk away from home and possessions and start over with what I could pack into a car. I can tell you of a year when my diet was largely rice and beans because that is all I could afford. Yes, now I have a small, very humble, home on a half acre. It's not mine but I have living rights to it. But, I've lived in small apartments, condos, and townhouses with postage stamp yards and HOA rules so stringent that I had to be careful how I breathed. But, rather than have the attitude of "wow is me" or "I'm trapped and I can't get out"...I always had a plan...a way to improve my self-sufficency.
I know Sky is a teacher and lives in an urban area. None of my comments were aimed at her specifically. I was commending on the notion that people have no hope because they made a certain penitence of an income. My point being -- it is much less about the income and much more about the attitude one takes about it. I remember a well known Christian financial advisor telling of four couples in Atlanta. The first came to him and said "you just can't live in Atlanta on $20,000 a year, if only we earned $40,000 we'd be able to do better". He looked at their expenses and said, "you are right, you can't live on $20,000". The second couple said, "you just can't live in Atlanta on $50,000 a year, if only we earned $70,000 we'd be okay". He looked at their expenses and said, "you are right, you can't live on $50,000". The third couple said "you just can't live in Atlanta on $75,000 a year, if only we made $100,000 a year, we'd be okay." He looked at their expenses and said, "you are right, you can't live on $75,000". The fourth couple told him, "you just can't live in Atlanta on $100,000 a year, if only we made $150,000 we'd be okay." He looked at their expenses and said, "you are right, you can't live on $100,000". So, was his point that in order to live decently in Atlanta, one must make $150,000 a year? Nope. His point was that the problem for each couple was in their expenses. Each was living beyond their means.
We have poor people in this country who believe they should have smartphones and cable tv and xBoxes and new cars and ....they think that these are needs and necessities. So, they don't have money for taking steps to improve their situation because what money they have is going to such "necessities". You can not eat a smartphone. I don't really even blame the people for this situation. It is a societal problem that has been created by a government who has secured their power base on the back of entitlements and by Hollywood and advertising and all the power-mongers who build their wealth by convincing people they can not live without their produce or a certain lifestyle.
I don't have cable tv nor a Wii nor many of the "necessities" people I know think they can't live without. Instead, I spend that money on items I need to build my homestead and my self-sufficiency. True, I still have internet but would dump it if I needed to. I have three dogs who are not herding dogs or guard dogs -- their only job is to be my and my mother's companions. So, I'm not without a few luxuries. ;-)
And, this all relates to the OP in that it is part of what brings us to a point where people can't deal with meat that isn't on a plastic butcher tray. People are too removed from the true costs of their lifestyles. No, not everyone should have to butcher their own food. But, it wouldn't hurt to have an understanding of what it takes to turn a chicken into a chicken nugget. But, see, cameras aren't allowed in slaughterhouses so people can't know what it takes.... unless they can go to a place like Polyface Farms and watch the process (or even help) on butcher day.