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@HTAcres I get how you feel this was piling on, but please don't feel unwelcome--I think all that was happening here was that so many people in our "real" lives use facebook as a given and those of us who do not get a lot of flack from it, again, in our real lives. I think what happened here was not intended to be directed at you personally, but at facebook itself, and the sudden realization that "Hey, me too, I found my people!!"
I quit facebook after my darling 96 year old grandma started posting racist memes during the 2016 election. It was a super personal decision, completely unrelated to you, or even social media in general. However you would not believe how many people have mocked me for my decision. It is a relief to find that I am not the only human not on FB. It makes sense though--If we don't like facebook and want to still communicate, we would be likely to find forums, right?
I am sorry it felt like an attack, I really do not think it was meant that way at all.
I appreciate this. I did not stay on Facebook thoughtlessly. I have my own "war stories" which I will leave out as they are way too political. I joined, and was banned, from Twitter. I was kicked out of a knitting forum, knitting?!!, for my politics. I use Amazon though I am not thrilled with the way they do business. I have love/hate relationships with Google and Microsoft and I haven't figured out alternate tools that work to help me accomplish my own goals. I need a new phone right now, only because "big Tech" insists on making apps so big that I run out of GBs - Gigabytes when we sent men to the moon with megabytes.
We have talked about all this at length in our home. What do you do when a tool you have come to rely on is manufactured by "someone" you disagree with emphatically? As a Christian, I became disenchanted with the notion of falling back into Christian ghettos in response to this sort of thing.
My life has been unexpectedly spent moving to different states so online became a social lifeline for me way back in the early '90s. The thing is, it is usually based on some commonality whether or not other bits and pieces of our lives are in sync. I might not think your gramma's memes were racist - if that were true, can we still talk about rabbits? It has ever been hard to keep politics and religion from ruining an otherwise burgeoning relationship. It is simply oh so much harder now more than ever.
Anyway, appreciate the olive branch. I will make decisions on a day I am more hopeful. Many days I wouldn't have even been bothered so I'll wait for one of those and try again.