Up until three weeks ago. I would have NEVER sold one of my large breeds to a pet buyer.
I had one contact me, and she got a Rex from my mentor, and put in such a plea as to why she should be an exception to my rule, I couldn't resist her.
In my defense, I raise two hard to find breeds, and two that require special care. There aren't a great deal of Rex breeders here, and less that raise the colors I do, so I am reluctant to sell pets when breeders need the stock.
Pets also bring in less money than pedigree show stock. Let's just be honest. Pet people usually don't spend $80 on a rabbit, but a show person would spend more than that one. Paid $90 for a Rex doe I later culled for producing kits with DQ's, $75 plus a 8 mos wait and transport fees for a doe that never had milk for a litter.
For quality control, I cull all rabbits that I would not want to breed, on the off chanced that a pet buyer will break their word (or change their mind) , and start breeding, peds go with pets (Jersey Woolies sell as pets). I won't take the chance that something that should not be bred will get back into the gene pool. Once you've bought a rabbit that turns out funky genes, you don't want anyone to ever have that experience.
The Angoras never go to pet homes, they take maintenance.
It takes several conversations before I give someone my address. I live in the inner city, I don't really want anyone to know I have rabbits, I might come home and they are gone... though the pack of German Shepherds are great deterrents.
When they finally make the trip, I make sure to have all the dogs out, and they watch me put them away. Guaranteed they won't come back looking for trouble
No one except breeder friends I get or sell stock to, ever go in the barn. I bring rabbits out, even if I have to bring the whole litter. Hand sanitizer before and after.
It's funny, I had someone I sold stock to previously come inside. I was moving cages around, they were sitting on the concrete floor with three litter mates and I had a few waiting in the grow out pen to go into new cages (emphasis on grow out). The person told the JW breeders at some other show that I kept all my rabbits together and let them run freely. The breeder I get most of my stock from confronted me at a show. I was dumbfounded. I was pretty sure I explained the situation to the visitor, but people see what they want to see, and although they say alright, ok, really you don't know what they are thinking or how they interpreted what they've seen or heard.
About shows--I've lost stock before. Yes shows are risky, but I depend mostly on breeders feeling the same way as I do, not bringing sick stock. There are cleaning supplies to wipe off the show table if one is inclined to do so. I've heard a few stories where someone brings something sneezing and the folks I show with make a big fuss.
After a show I QT everything that traveled, even if it didn't go on the table.