That's tricky! So glad you put up new photos... I wish I could see the bunnies in person, lighting can make such a difference.
Agoutis do have some strange phases as they develop their color (and cream, opal, chinchilla amd squirrel are all agoutis), but the dark undercolor in your bunnies is really making me re-think cream. Smutty creams can have a blue gray undercoat, and they can definitely have ear lacing, as can any non-extension color, though the lacing in the first photo looks more blue than lilac. But the various shades of chinchilla have dark undercoats, and your rabbits now look more blue than fawns generally do, except for the last photo.
But it still doesn't look like they have ring color to me, with the possible exception of photo #4, which I suppose could show poor ring definition. The photos don't show anything I'd call ticking, so I'm still not convinced it's squirrel. But, here is a lilac chinchilla from Wildriver Rabbitry
Mini Rex Color Guide, which *kind of* looks your photo #4:
Here is a squirrel rex from Mink Hollow's page
farm:rabbits:rabbit_colours [Mink Hollow Farm]
and one from Wildriver Rabbitry
Mini Rex Color Guide:
Here is a photo of a lynx with excellent ring definition:
and here is fawn/cream (not lilac, though):
The three photos above are from Wildriver excellent coat color page
Mini Rex Color Guide.
Here is a photo of a lilac cream Holland Lop from Green Barn Farm's great coat color matrix page. The color will present slightly differently due to structural differences in rex fur but you can see the general "look."
Photo by Michelle Winter, from
www.gbfarm.org
But then here's photo of a lilac cream rex from Mink Hollow's page
farm:rabbits:rabbit_colours [Mink Hollow Farm],
and it looks a lot more 'creamy' than your bluish bunnies:
Lighting, of course, can really play havoc with color discussions, especially with subtle dilute colors.
I know the least about steel but understand that there's a wide variation in the presentation of the steeling effect. Here's a blue silver-tipped steel from
Steel Gene It's got the same general hue but it's got the "tipping" that I'm not seeing in the photos of your rabbits. That could be related to the rex coat type, though.
Can you post some photos of their bellies, including the undercolor?
Fun mystery!