Why are breeders hard to deal with?
Most people don't have the first clue on proper etiquette when it comes
to buying stock directly from a breeder. It's a sad fact, but very true.
Oftentimes the first contact is via phone conversation. Keep it short,
direct, and to the point. Please, no late evening calls, and don't
call a half-dozen times to chit-chat. The breeder has more than
likely had a very long day and they're tired, wanting to relax and
take it easy.
Make and appointment and agree upon an arrival time that's suitable
for both party's. Tend to agree 'more' with what's workable for the breeder
rather than yourself. It works more to your favor if you do this.
Let the breeder know how many people are coming. This is critical and
should not be overlooked. Don't let them think, or assume, it will be
only yourself coming, then show up with a carload of people. Among which
are some youngsters that may or may not behave. The breeder may well
have thousands tied up in stock and equipment, including does that are
close to kindling... The last thing needed in a rabbitry are disruptions
and loud noises.
DO NOT, FOR ANY REASON, BE LATE. If you are, call and offer
to reschedule if your being late will conflict with the Breeder's time-line.
Don't show up unannounced and expect to be well received.
Don't argue price... know the price prior to going and expect to pay it.
These are all issues I've dealt with over the past 40+ years of raising
rabbits. There's a lot more, but these are some main issues a breeder
deals with on a continual basis.
Remember, he's got the rabbits that you want..... Be Nice.
Grumpy.