Zinnia":2y2y6pgr said:
DBA, I see your point entirely and share your frustration deeply. Too many people play the system like a fiddle, fine tuning their lives around the benefits they "qualify" for. There's such an ugly mass of abusers of the system, it's bound to anger many hard-working people. I've been burned by a few of these such people as the take advantage of our system and their "right" to file bankruptcy every X amount of years. It's PLANNED in their calendars! I love hearing the excuses, too. But, really, when they are eating at Culvers, smoking cigarettes, buying crap toys their kids don't need, I get angry. It's downright ugly. I have seen worse that I won't describe here. I'm glad you can acknowledge that low income people are not all like that, though. Some are truly working hard to provide for their families. It's the abusers that stand out the most.
Of course not all low income people are like that. My family; wife, two children, and myself, we live off of less than $36,000 a year. Wife pays $115 out of her biweekly paycheck for our health insurance. No Obama care for us, unless you count the fact that since the implementation of "affordable" care act, out insurance went up $30+ and our coverage dropped some.
We have a mortgage on our house ($435 month), a payment on one car. We don't get food stamps, energy assistance, free anything. We work for what we have, just as any SELF RESPECTING person would.
We don't have cable or satalite tv. We are actually considering shutting off our cell phones. We worry about needs much more than wants.
I feel I am entitled to what ever I EARN, not whatever someone else has earned. If my boss has a better car than me, that should be incentive for me to try harder, work smarter, and do better so I can buy a car better than him. It shouldn't make me hold a grudge against him because he earned it.
That is just an example, i really don't care what my boss drives, I'm kind of fond of my beat up, rusty old 20+ year old Ford truck.
Opportunities are out there for anyone who is willing to open their eyes and look for them, then get off their butts and do something. A kid my little brother went to high school with had an idea. It was risky the way he implemented it, but he did it. He took out a $6000 personal loan. Next week, he, quit his job and drove down somewhere in Florida. Went and bought a used lawn mower and started getting jobs mowing lawns while living in a motel. Fast forward two years. He has four full time crews of two people each, and a couple extra guys who just help as needed. He has a rented warehouse, but owns his five trucks, 6 different trailers, top of the line mowers, blowers, trimmers, etc.
He makes damn good money. He had an idea, saw an opportunity, and took a risk. If he can do it, anyone else can too.