Lol, Ann, my hubby works on computers on the side, and I hear "what an idiot", an awful lot, lol. (then again, I hear it from the people he fixes computers for just as often, but not about him, lol)
I have been struggling with the whole pet sales thing myself, and am thinking I am no longer going to offer rabbits for sale, except in exceptional cases. Pet stores would NEVER get one of my rabbits. Things like broken legs really bug me.
I think it's interesting that you can say or write something in a million different ways, and it can be taken in any one of those ways.
When I first found out there were online forums dedicated to rabbits (earlier this year) I asked a question on HT, and got some answers back. It was one of the first times I posted. The question was about natural feeding, and I was advised to feed pellets until I moved to the country. I took it so personally, bawled all day, didn't go back to the site for three days, I was so hurt and upset. I told my hubby I couldn't have any friends, even the people nline were mean to me (one of the offenders was Maggie, lol).
I went to the site to show him the horrible, judgemental things people were saying, and I was shocked. None of the comments were mean or downputting at all. They were all very nice, polite comments suggesting that there were probably too many polutants and stuff and too little weeds growing in my area to make it worthwhile. Nothing that I had remembered.
So now I take everything with a grain of salt. If it seems "mean" I can come back later and read it, and my perspective is usually different. I also have the knowledge (after being on here and HT for four months) that you guys are very nice people and not mean at all.
My point was, even with the same person, same writing, perspectives can change according to how you feel (I was hormonal and pregnant, lol).