Congrats on the BOB and BOSB, MSD!! Both must have been rewarding, but to see something that you've put your time and effort into win... that's the feeling I want. I was raised to pick a goal, and work towards it; I was never handed things as a child, if I wanted something, I worked for it. I suppose that has stuck with me, that it's far more rewarding to do the work yourself. Something that has stuck in my mind was when my sister was involved in 4H. My mother leased a horse for her from my sister's friend's family. A big palomino gelding, huge, old, placid... but stubborn and not responsive. My sister worked on that horse every day for months before the show they were hosting, and through improving her own riding, she also improved the horse. In the show, she borrowed her friend's jumper, as Sunny was too old to safely jump, and took first. She had done flatwork on Sunny, gotten a third place, which was the best ribbon that gelding had ever won. She was by and far more proud of working that old horse enough to have him responsive enough to get her third, than she was of jumping to first on her friend's push button horse.
I think that in the new year, I'm going to look into the DRCBA, which has close shows, and pick a show I can go to just to see how things are, meet some people, and see if the show world is right for me. I never thought about volunteering, though! I'm also making valuable contacts at the moment with other LH breeders, especially though the purchase of my dust mop. Her breeder was willing to evaluate her via pictures, and she and I came up with the same issues. She's also offered to evaluate my other stock, if I can send her better pictures, and she also thinks that Dobby would be a good match for the dust mop.
But, truth be told, I think that this forum, and the members here, are my greatest asset. I've learned so much from everyone, both good things and bad things. And regardless if it is "realistic" or not, I would much rather know that my blood, sweat and tears are invested in what I'm breeding and eventually showing, than just my money.