I currently have a young doe who is just a nervous nellie but showing all the signs of being ready to breed... but being with a buck freaks her out.
I have a number of things I do with excitable does.
1. put my hand on their head to just settle them
2. put my hand on their back and just HOLD them. I don't hold them for the buck to mount but just to help them chill out. Different does respond to different settlings.
3. toss in a big whack of hay to give her something to do other than think BUCK BUCK RUN!!!!
NONE of these things worked with this doe.
SO I did the following:
1. put her in the bucks cage, the buck in hers... and switched them back and forth for a few days. (still freaked)
2. put her next to "Mr. sprayee" buck. (still freaked)
These two things usually get them to relax.
3. Had her see a buck breeding.
This usually is just the icing.
4. STILL really scared acting with the buck so ... on Tuesday I tossed her and a buck into my big cage. She ran laps until she was good and tired and then realized he wasn't going to attack her. It's now Saturday and she's still nervous (part of her temperament) but she's not scared and she's letting him sit next to her and just is being a settled girl. She'll stay with him another couple of days or until she starts to act like she's bred. IF she acts like mom and auntie... she'll start acting bred by Monday/Tuesday next week.
It's a matter of knowing your does right? If you know what their parents act like, and what they like to have YOU do to them (for instance many of my does like a simple head stroke on their forehead or a rub down the back). The odd one wants an ear rub, and one won't let me touch her (guess who that one is).