grumpy
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Today was my youngest son, Reggie's graduation. 21 years ago, these three little fellas came into our lives. It was a bittersweet day. Full of memories, tears, laughter, and reflection. Being a member of the School Board (Vice-President) I was on stage and able to hand Reggie his diploma. I waited for his name to be called as the superintendent handed me his diploma. (I made sure it was in my left hand for a right-hand shake)
It didn't really make any difference....under the spotlight, in front of nearly 1000 people, my son advanced towards me with tears streaming down his face and gave me the world's biggest HUG!! The audience sighed. We managed to shake hands and he turned to go.
I said, "Wait a minute", pointing to my cheek with my finger. He smiled and with no hesitation gave me a "smacker" right on the cheek. "Love you, Pop." He whispered into my ear as his lips touched my cheek. My heart felt like it would surely burst. I am so proud of my sons. This was Reggie's SPECIAL DAY!
Yet, under it all, my heart bore a heavy burden.
I'm the oldest of four boys.
We need to "back-up" in time about an hour and a half. I was in the bathroom, tying my tie, getting ready for graduation, when my cell phone rang. It was my younger brother Kenny. He called to tell me the youngest boy "Kerry" of us four brothers had been found dead early this morning. My chest felt like it had been hit with a hammer.
I was alone when I received the bad news. I've yet to tell my family. This is a day of special importance for Reggie. I cannot/will not cast a pall of sorrow over this day. I will carry this burden until tomorrow morning before I break the news to them. I may be wrong.....but I feel I'm not.
I nearly lost Kenny earlier this year. I would have given 5 to 1 odds he wouldn't survive, he was that ill. But, he did! It's been an emotional roller coaster for me. I only hope I'm doing the right thing for my boy.
None of my family read this site. If they did, I'd have no place to share my sorrow. Thank you for listening.
As I'm writing this, I can hear my son's laughter in the background as he opens his graduation gifts from family and friends.
Sounds like he's makin' out pretty good!!
Grumpy.
It didn't really make any difference....under the spotlight, in front of nearly 1000 people, my son advanced towards me with tears streaming down his face and gave me the world's biggest HUG!! The audience sighed. We managed to shake hands and he turned to go.
I said, "Wait a minute", pointing to my cheek with my finger. He smiled and with no hesitation gave me a "smacker" right on the cheek. "Love you, Pop." He whispered into my ear as his lips touched my cheek. My heart felt like it would surely burst. I am so proud of my sons. This was Reggie's SPECIAL DAY!
Yet, under it all, my heart bore a heavy burden.
I'm the oldest of four boys.
We need to "back-up" in time about an hour and a half. I was in the bathroom, tying my tie, getting ready for graduation, when my cell phone rang. It was my younger brother Kenny. He called to tell me the youngest boy "Kerry" of us four brothers had been found dead early this morning. My chest felt like it had been hit with a hammer.
I was alone when I received the bad news. I've yet to tell my family. This is a day of special importance for Reggie. I cannot/will not cast a pall of sorrow over this day. I will carry this burden until tomorrow morning before I break the news to them. I may be wrong.....but I feel I'm not.
I nearly lost Kenny earlier this year. I would have given 5 to 1 odds he wouldn't survive, he was that ill. But, he did! It's been an emotional roller coaster for me. I only hope I'm doing the right thing for my boy.
None of my family read this site. If they did, I'd have no place to share my sorrow. Thank you for listening.
As I'm writing this, I can hear my son's laughter in the background as he opens his graduation gifts from family and friends.
Sounds like he's makin' out pretty good!!
Grumpy.