Deer Heart
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A bit of a long story, sorry there's no real way to keep this short.
I have that new property I've been gushing about. It is a little over 4 acres. My mother is helping me a great deal to get everything sorted out. Basically, we got the lot extremely cheap (she found it and is fronting the money until my current house sells to pay for it). She has decided though that she wants to split it in two, taking away an entire 2 acres of the lot to re-sell. I would really rather keep the entire lot whole as the 2 acres she's wanting to sell off provides a large amount of privacy to where my house is intended to go as well as the perfect pasture for meat goats. (It is a large amount of brush, I'd also like to reseed it once cleared and try for Dexters and/or Alpaca) She was of the assumption it was way too much acreage for me to handle as a solitary person (Yes, I am all alone, I could see that) But I don't think it is as long as I take my time in growing my farm and stop if or when I feel overwhelmed. To not have the option for expansion upsets me a great deal honestly. But now the splitting is becoming more of a sell it so we can buy the house to put on my side sort of thing as it's taking almost a year now to sell my house for the money to buy my new house.
Is there any way I could possibly bring up not doing it without seeming like a complete ingrate about the whole thing? It isn't even about the money really, just her perception of what would help me the most. Less acreage to "Worry about" and if it sells faster than my house, I would get to move in that much sooner.
Worse yet, she hired a surveyor already to survey and split the land 3 months ago. They haven't even surveyed the land yet. So I feel like even trying to bring it up is asking to upset her.
(another reason I'm against the split btw is because our county limits "hoofed" animals per acre. Regardless of size. You can have 4 for your first acre and only one per acre after that. Meaning I can only ever have 5 goats - even if they're Nigerians. Or 2 pigs and 3 goats... or 1 pig, 1 alpaca, and 3 goats... you see my problem with this I hope)
I have that new property I've been gushing about. It is a little over 4 acres. My mother is helping me a great deal to get everything sorted out. Basically, we got the lot extremely cheap (she found it and is fronting the money until my current house sells to pay for it). She has decided though that she wants to split it in two, taking away an entire 2 acres of the lot to re-sell. I would really rather keep the entire lot whole as the 2 acres she's wanting to sell off provides a large amount of privacy to where my house is intended to go as well as the perfect pasture for meat goats. (It is a large amount of brush, I'd also like to reseed it once cleared and try for Dexters and/or Alpaca) She was of the assumption it was way too much acreage for me to handle as a solitary person (Yes, I am all alone, I could see that) But I don't think it is as long as I take my time in growing my farm and stop if or when I feel overwhelmed. To not have the option for expansion upsets me a great deal honestly. But now the splitting is becoming more of a sell it so we can buy the house to put on my side sort of thing as it's taking almost a year now to sell my house for the money to buy my new house.
Is there any way I could possibly bring up not doing it without seeming like a complete ingrate about the whole thing? It isn't even about the money really, just her perception of what would help me the most. Less acreage to "Worry about" and if it sells faster than my house, I would get to move in that much sooner.
Worse yet, she hired a surveyor already to survey and split the land 3 months ago. They haven't even surveyed the land yet. So I feel like even trying to bring it up is asking to upset her.
(another reason I'm against the split btw is because our county limits "hoofed" animals per acre. Regardless of size. You can have 4 for your first acre and only one per acre after that. Meaning I can only ever have 5 goats - even if they're Nigerians. Or 2 pigs and 3 goats... or 1 pig, 1 alpaca, and 3 goats... you see my problem with this I hope)