Not to be over critical but you are contradicting yourself.
You say your not breeding rabbits but you didn't want Dutch because breeding for the proper markings is difficult.
Please clarify if you plan to breed your new rabbit or not? Competition can be fierce with some breeds so the cost of quality stock can be high and you may need to breed new rabbits every year to stay competitive. Also, breeding proper markings for broken varieties, and especially English Spot, can be trickier than getting a good Dutch pattern.
Having a calm running breed can be a difficult feat as they do tend to be jumpy. They are more active so they are generally squirmier and not enjoy handling as much as rabbits you pose. But with daily handling he could likely train such a rabbit to fight its natural urge to escape.
English Spot can go up to 8 pounds so I am assuming he would actually prefer a rabbit similar in size to a Dutch and be under 6lb. Since Dutch are not a choice, perhaps he'd like a Tan, Thriantra or Himalayan, or even a Florida White or Havana.
I use to breed ND and the ones I knew in the 80's were notorious for bad attitudes. I personally like their feisty temperament but would never recommend them for first time rabbit owners or children. Of course different bloodlines may be better or worse depending on what the breeder selects for. About 80% of the rabbits I currently rescue are ND or crosses and they still have "quirky" temperaments that are not everyone's cup of tea. Poor litterbox habits, cage aggression and destructive behaviour are the most common reasons I'm given for them being unwanted.