This a difficult situation.
My daughter has a new friend that moved in down the road. The kid is really a nice kid very polite and quiet, but his mom says she is an ARA. :x I don't want to tell my daughter that she cant hang out with this kid, as she has a hard time making new friends and there is not very many kids her age around here that she can play with. She has been playing with the kid for a couple of months now with no problems, mom knew we raised meat chickens (didn't tell her about the rabbits) and was fine with, she said that she would only eat chicken that was raised by her friend, not from the store. Then she says I am a big animal rights activist. Red flags started to go up with that!
Yesterday my daughter went to their house to play. When she came home she asked... when we drink milk are we drinking pus? I guess the kids mom told her they only drink almond milk because cows milk is nothing but pus. Then she told her that when baby cows are born they are taken from the mom and thrown out in the backyard to starve to death so we can drink their milk. I explained to my daughter that this was not true and why, and she was fine with my answer and eat her cereal with milk this morning, with no problems.
The problem now is how do I deal with this person? I don't want to tell my daughter she cant play with the kid, because she does like him and doesn't have anyone else nearby. But I also don't want to have this person make her think we are "bad" people for raising our own meat. (which so far she hasn't)
My daughter has a new friend that moved in down the road. The kid is really a nice kid very polite and quiet, but his mom says she is an ARA. :x I don't want to tell my daughter that she cant hang out with this kid, as she has a hard time making new friends and there is not very many kids her age around here that she can play with. She has been playing with the kid for a couple of months now with no problems, mom knew we raised meat chickens (didn't tell her about the rabbits) and was fine with, she said that she would only eat chicken that was raised by her friend, not from the store. Then she says I am a big animal rights activist. Red flags started to go up with that!
Yesterday my daughter went to their house to play. When she came home she asked... when we drink milk are we drinking pus? I guess the kids mom told her they only drink almond milk because cows milk is nothing but pus. Then she told her that when baby cows are born they are taken from the mom and thrown out in the backyard to starve to death so we can drink their milk. I explained to my daughter that this was not true and why, and she was fine with my answer and eat her cereal with milk this morning, with no problems.
The problem now is how do I deal with this person? I don't want to tell my daughter she cant play with the kid, because she does like him and doesn't have anyone else nearby. But I also don't want to have this person make her think we are "bad" people for raising our own meat. (which so far she hasn't)