ButtonsPalace
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So turns out that this morning my Nanny passed away at about 5:10 a.m. She went home to join my Papaw. I just found this all out between last night and this morning so I feel like I've had a ton of bricks just knock me off my life path and I'm sitting in a daze trying to make sense of my emotions. I feel betrayed, I don't understand why nobody told me she was in the hospital for an ENTIRE week! She apparently had the flu (This is on top of multiple other prior health issues; Such as she lost her ear to cancer and got a prosthetic, severe arthritis in her hands, I guess it's rheumatoid arthritis? I never asked so I can't be sure. She also had lost majority of her vision in her left eye as well as had her right eye sewn shut other than a hole to put eye drops.) Anyway, she apparently had the flu and was taking meds to cure that and apparently her regular antibiotics. They told me today that on Thursday she decided to stop taking all of her medicine and on Friday morning she woke up and said she dreamed she was cooking breakfast for Papaw. I've cried so much I feel like I'm pulling myself into pieces with stress. Today has been a virtual hell in my head, to go to her funeral means to stay the night at my dads. My dad, the same person who has lied to me my entire life about anything he could ever lie to me about along with sexually abusing me. It's my only way of going seeing it's a 2 hour drive to Haywood County to the funeral, I don't want to leave home Monday and stay the night. I want to go to her funeral though, maybe I'm overthinking but I can't trust the man who helped bring me in this world because he's lied to me so much. I feel so torn, so confused.. I don't know what to do but I'm killing myself over this.