I feel like an idiot, lol. I know it is probably sitting in front of my face, but for the life of me can't figure out how to get back to my dashboard.....Any ideas?

Look for the Site Admin along one site and click it if that dont work go to the Rabbit talk blogs page go to the very bottom on the right side where it says log in then you can see the site admin click that that will get you in. I think your the one i could not comment on your site.
Forgot to say i fill your pain it took me almost 2 days to find mine lol. Were all learning

I believe if you click on one of the blog titles, you will be taken to that main page. At the top, right, there should be a thing that says "edit". Click it. Then when you're on the edit page, look on the left column to find "appearance". Click it.

On the "appearance" submenu you'll see "widgets". Widgets are things like "calendar", etc. There is one that will let you put the Meta stuff on the sidebar. Meta is the admin stuff...then it will show up on your front page when you go to the blog.

If you somehow lose your meta widget and can't find your way back to your dashboard, just append /wp-admin/ to the url of your blog's homepage.